Saturday, November 10, 2007

To Clique or not to clique?

Why do we have this need to fit in? Everyone is out to impress, gain approval and essentially become a member of a clique. For what, a sense of belonging? You want to feel like you belong to this group, even if though you don't like half the people in it. Is it a source of support or simply a way to protect you from other cliques and your own insecurities?

In the end, do you want to be a part of a group that can leave you stripped of individuality and prevent you from mixing with people outside your group? Cliques cause you to act differently from normal in an effort to fit in; often leaving you feeling even more lost than when you were alone.

So I ask again....why do we have this need to fit in? Find confidence and boost your self esteem so that you can stand proud. Don't let yourself be labeled. Be yourself!

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